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As a first time mother, I constantly worry about only the best for my child, and the high price tags that come with it. I prefer to have all his stuff brand new than simply spent. A mere six months later, my baby's closet full of seldom worn clothes that were either too small for him, or not fit for the season. A year later, our small apartment was filled with a bouncer, walker, swing and various games / musical / discovery / activity tools that my child had tired of. The lesson is pretty obvious. Practicality is a virtue that every mother should possess. Here are some helpful tips that I learned too late. Nevertheless they are still applicable when buying products for my toddler.Gently used clothing that you can buy at thrift stores will save you tons of money. Babies grow so quickly, so there is no reason to splurge on expensive branded clothes at this time. Your baby will wear it maybe six times at the most before it becomes too small, so it is definitely not worth it. Giving your baby spent decent clothes does not mean you love him less. And one good thing about it is you do not have to stress about food stains ruin your clothes, as opposed to when your child is wearing new. Use your trusty search engine to look up discount baby stores in your area. It was only recently that I discovered one near our local mall. And I was filled with regret over not to go there before. I made decent deals on toys and clothes. They have all sorts of baby equipment, from books to strollers to cribs. You can also sell baby things that your child no longer has a need. But what I prefer to go online, which leads to my next tip.The Internet offers endless possibilities when it comes to buying, selling and even swapping baby products. I use craigslist.org because it is not difficult to create an account and passwords and all that. I was able to make transactions with it successfully when I was in need to get rid of a walker and buy a used swing in good condition. This is the place to go when you want to buy the large furniture type items, as long as you're willing to take it up themselves. You can make good deals and get to know people in your area. If you need a special baby gear, there is a great chance you'll find it in thousands of sales posted here. For the smaller items, there is always eBay. Then there is an exchange site where you can trade baby and such. I can not recommend one because I have not tried any of it, but if you have time, it is worth checking out.Visit the Birth Choice in your area. Birth Choice is a health clinic that gives parents advice and free baby products. When I was pregnant, I was invited to register here. After birth, I made a visit here, and I got a bag of used but decent newborn clothes and a pack of diapers. I was grateful for it. I also discovered they offer a range of services other mothers will find useful. I was told I could come here once a month to get some things for my child, but in the past year, I think I only came here twice. Naturally, these sites also rely on donations, so I made it a point to give some of my minor child's clothes, which would make a second mother happy. It would assume it's different in every area, so it is better to check with your local Birth Choice only starting to ring before they enter Search these clearance racks. If you are determined that your little one wearing brand new clothes, and you enjoy to get off the tags yourself, you can save a few dollars by reviewing sales and clearance items. There is always a gem hidden somewhere inside. When I visit Carter's or Osh B'Gosh kosher, I'm surprised to find really cute clothes at very low prices. Maybe these stores realize that mothers are at a very limited budget these days and too expensive baby clothes will not help their business. For more options, you can always come to Wal-Mart and Target. Although the products are cheap, it does not mean they are of low quality. They actually can be compared with branded clothing. And I should know because I'm a happy regular shopper for baby items at both stores. Another favorite of mine is JCPenney. I remember always to check their holiday and after-holiday sales, because you can get as much as 70% off brand-name baby and lots more. Relatives are more than eager to buy your baby some cute clothes and nice toys, especially my mother and mother-in-law. Expect a lot of these gifts on his birthday and Christmas, of course. So when your child needs to put a winter coat and his birthday is coming up, you can hold off on buying one and drop hints. At Christmas, got my child a lot of new clothes that made me really happy. It is a good idea not to be too excited and use them all at once. Since some of them are still great for him, I put away the clothes that fit him later. The way he is all set for the next season clothes-wise. He also got several new toys, and I refuse to sell them because they are gifts bought with my son in mind. If he has used them and got tired of them, it's another story.I think that's all I got. I hope the mothers out there got something out of this. It is a given to take advantage of the time when our children are not picky farsightedness. Ten years from now when they develop a sense of style and realize what is cool and not, we will undoubtedly yearn for the old days when they do not complain about the clothes we buy them.